MSN and Remote Assistance

Now, I know with Remote Assistance (RA) you can basically control ones computer, but, my question is this....

Me and a friend are running MSN 7.5.0*06, and have MSN Plus & Messpatch.
Both with the Auto-Accept function turned on.

Does RA have to be sent from the user for me to see what is on his PC?
Or could I send the invite to RA and have it auto-accept?

Nothing I have tried, just curious if anyone else has.

A R.A.T (remote administration tool.) other known as trojan. all you have to do is get him to open a file and then you open a defifferent one called client and type in his ip address and you can take control of his pc.